For those of you going to watch "50 Shades of Gray", I'm not going to write a judgy post. Just wanted to share these verses:
"4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
1 Corinthians 13 4-7
If a man doesn't strive to treat a woman with these verses in mind, there is nothing 'hot' or 'attractive' about him.